I wasn’t much of the dating type in my teen age hood-right through my “roaring 20’s”. I guess you can sort of call me a late bloomer. I was shy, and I was insecure about my sexual dating preference& I found it very difficult meeting single men in the gay community. I tried my hand at internet chat rooms but that was the worst thing anybody could do! To tell you the truth, putting my self out there in bars felt some what degrading to me as well. It also doesn’t help that my career takes up a lot of time, preventing me from having a social life.
I have had several different relationships set up through friends-some were good some were terrible. I guess that’s the price we’ll pay for love. As you can see I, like so many of you out there in the same boat, have tried almost every form of dating there is. I felt like I was destined for failure in the love department. Then I saw an ad in the subway for the Entre-Nous Network and just had to see what they were about. After doing my research on their website, I came across the Personal Preference form and I knew that Entre Nous were professional leaders in the industry of Gay Dating. Within a few days I was contacted by a representative to come in and meet with the relationship counselor. I was nervous at first but they made me feel really comfortable in the interview process before joining the exclusive data base.
She let me know that all of the active members in the dating service were just like me and that meant a lot! They are all successful with their careers; they have a desire for a relationship that could possibly develop into something long term. The part that I was sold on was that they don’t just offer the service to everyone. They have in-depth screening process that will determine if the Entre- Nous Network is in fact the right service for you yourself. They also use this tool to filter out singles that aren’t necessarily looking for life partner, but looking for a fling rather. It really keeps the client base down to members that are worthy candidates for new singles to the service.
I believe it took me a couple phone calls from the matching department before I decided to take on date #1. He was a nice a guy but he wasn’t exactly what I was looking for. Then I had a date with Alex and that was a step up from the first guy, but still couldn’t see us in it for the long haul. When date #5 came in to the coffee shop I was really caught off guard by how hot he was!
I mean, all I could think of was “why the heck is he single?” Once we got deep into our conversation, we could both agree that this was the best blind date we’ve ever been on-so we decided to meet once a week after that. We quickly went from seeing each other once a week to almost every day in a span of 3 months.
Flash forward to this awesome summer we’re just days into & I am happy to announce that we are a month away from moving in to our house! This all was made possible by the only gay dating service in Toronto, in Canada for that matter. Thank You Entre-Nous Network; you have helped me & the other gazillion gay single men in this city find true love.